Latest update: 6-16-2020
Even as Governor Wolf has loosened and adjusted by color certain parts of our state, I maintain the best practices everywhere I go. Please be in touch for any details regarding the aforementioned or the requirements at your home for you, other occupants of your home and your baby.
My 3-22-2020 statement on circumcision during the Covid-19/coronavirus outbreak
If you are reading this, it is likely that you and/or a loved one is expecting a baby soon. You may know the gender or prefer to see for yourself on that wondrous day. In either case, my heart goes out to you. Every aspect of pregnancy and birth should be as joyful as possible. Having this pandemic weigh upon your baby's arrival must feel overwhelming.
Still, the bris must go on
My technique and nearly 30 years of experience with several thousand cases, means your son will undergo a procedure that lasts seconds as opposed to many minutes in hospital circumcisions. Your baby will be handled in a loving manner with beautiful rituals that link him to the many generations that came before his splendid arrival. A sandek (an honor bestowed upon a special designee) will put sweet wine, grape juice or plain sugar water to your son's lips thereby distracting him from the brief procedure.
Complications with a hospital circumcision
Despite the lower risk of contracting any illness at home over a hospital or birthing center, some doctors and delivery room staff are recommending hospital circumcisions over a traditional bris. This is troubling on many fronts. Infection rates are widely known to be higher in hospitals and other medical treatment centers than at home. Hospital circumcisions are often assigned to interns with minimal experience, and they are generally not performed in as expedient a manner as those done by mohalim(plural mohel). Finally, should you assign your son’s circumcision to the hospital staff, he will still need a brit milah.
There are special cases that necessitate the delay of circumcision until the baby is stronger or until he weighs more. Medical conditions may be found that require the consultation of a pediatric urologist. Absent of these factors, a hospital circumcision is never preferable to a mohel with an excellent reputation.
When a baby is circumcised in the hospital, it is nearly always done before the eighth day of life. In this case, entering your son into the Covenant of Abraham requires a symbolic bris ceremony in which the mohel takes a drop of blood from the circumcision site. There are legal situations (adoptions and/or conversions) that require hatafat dam, and when appropriate, I hold these ceremonies in a loving and meaningful way. I will provide a certificate much like the one I provide at a bris, indicating that the child has been entered into the Covenant of Abraham. That said, when a traditional bris is possible, a second procedure - delayed hatafat dam brit (a symbolic drop of blood), is never preferable.
Proper Precautions - During my training at the Jacobi Medical Center, I was taught how to properly put on and wear surgical gloves. As well, I learned the important procedures for sterilizing non-disposable instruments. I keep up on the changes and new products in the industry over these nearly 30 years. I sustain valuable, long-standing relationships with physicians and colleagues (mohalim to whom I am willing to refer patients when I cannot fulfill the time and/or distance requirements) and these are essential to staying current and informed.
That said, it has not been “business as usual” for me and many other modern responsible mohalim. Everyone in my household takes this crisis extremely seriously. None of us leave home when it is not absolutely necessary.
I began refusing britot(sometimes pluralized brisses) for families that do not take proper precautions and limit guests to the members of the household. Please be in contact for clarification as the guidelines and recommendations are constantly being updated.
I am fortunate that my prayer-space in Elkins Park, Pennsylvania (CongregationAJ.org), made the wise decision to close the synagogue already on the Shabbat of March 14, 2020. This was early compared to most synagogues in our community. All worship, all meetings and all instruction went online that day.
What YOU can do now
Take this seriously. Plan ahead. Extraordinary times call for extraordinary measures. Expecting parents tend to receive many packages in the month before birth from well-intentioned friends and family who want you to have these items immediately when you need them.
Clean thoroughly every item (big or small) that enters your home. Practice this procedure regarding gifts and all deliveries.
Plan ahead - There is something you can do now. It may seem presumptive but we generally know who is likely to send a package, big or small. Ask family and friends to delay any non-essential gifts.
Take Precautions - Wipe down boxes thoroughly before opening the box outside your house or apartment building. This may seem extreme and admittedly, it is not (yet) part of the CDC guidelines. That said this is your baby and he is worth the extra work.
Read more here...
and here (the wire cutter site is a NY Times affiliate)...
Dispose - Remove the contents of packages you need and dispose of the cardboard while still outside the home. Read more here about cardboard and the life of droplets.
Live Stream - If you are not already set up, get ready for live-streaming the bris ceremony and other ‘magical’ moments and milestones. There is no problem from my standpoint to have all of the bris live streamed. I will gladly assist you in positioning the phone/tablet/laptop in a way that will not compromise your modesty (for the procedure or nursing thereafter). For several years already, britot I have performed were viewed by family for whom it was impossible to be physically present. Be they great parents, cousins on a college year abroad or in one case, a father serving in Iraq, those who attend virtually report feeling they were present and a part of your ceremony. They can contribute by offering speeches and prayers and they should even hold a seudat mitzvah (the meal that is ordained for britot, b’nai mitzvah & weddings).
Talk to me - I am always willing to set a time to speak by phone or video chat. You need not know the gender nor be expecting in only a month or so. I am honored to receive the inquiry and I am eager to contribute to the joy in your baby’s blessed arrival.
My cell is on me 24/7 but I prefer to take non-urgent calls regarding circumcision
Sun - Thursday: 7am - 10pm
Friday: 7am -6pm
Saturday after sunset
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